Tuesday, March 19, 2013

Friends of My Childhood



This image was forwarded to me by my St. Charles classmate Eunice Ward Brown (front row second from left -- embraced on her right by May Krablin and on her left by Bob Knowlton).  I cannot recall haven't seen it.  Yet there I am (fourth from the left middle row) next to Liz Dupslaff, one of my earliest childhood friends  and apparently my guide.  We're in fifth grade [1945 or 46] and I've just returned from being away during the war years at Little Rock, and I suspect, though don't remember, she was assigned to watch over me because she knew who I was.

I was astonished by this picture. I was, I think, the only person from Crockett's Bluff.  So many of these (those of us in fifth grade) friends and classmates reflect histories that startle me still.  And here we are in fifth grade, not yet in those days, even in the midst of puberty.  Unlike perhaps some of the sixth graders pictured with us.  I say this because the lovely figure just behind me is Irene Hudson, one of the most beautiful females I could envision in those days is still, even in the most distant of memories, the subject of one of the most erotic encounters of my recollected youth.

1st Row: Mae Krablin, Eunice Ward, Bobby Jerrel Knowlton, Richard McKinley, Arthur Krablin, Jr., Jo Ann Browning, Mary Dawson, Mora Faye Duty, Robert Almond, Frank Caple, Charles Donald Crabtree, Millard Carver, Weson Adams, George Dobson.

2nd Row: Frieda Shumate, Louise Thornsbury, Helen Smith, Dale Woodiel, Elizabeth Ann Dupslaff, Kay Terry, Mae Dale Dillon, Gladys Bowermaster, Nellie Ann Crabtree, Bobby J. Bullock, Joyce Jones, Cora Mae Dewease, Joe Currie, Garland Long, Billy Dawson, Issac Prater, Mrs. Cora May Burrell, Teacher.


3rd Row: Deliah LeHue, Norma Jean Smith, Mary Helen Eason, Irene Hudson, Georgia Lee Simpson, Audrey B. Dunn, Sarah Dawson, Bette Lou Maddox, Edna Mae Shadwich, Henry Lee, Edward Early Jones, Troy Wages, Mack Smith.








Here we are a few years later in eighth grade in 1949.  We've lost some classmates, their having moved away, but we've acquired one noteworthy member, Peter Van Huesen, who would become a good friend and who brought to the class some other-world style and "folkways" somewhat strange to the community of St. Charles, not to mention Crockett's Bluff, Ethel, and all that prairie space in between.

I should note with the image below the greater part of our group in New Orleans all dressed up for dinner at The Court of Two Sisters, accompanied by Mr. and Mrs. Charles Downs, our Principal, and Mrs. Malcolm Browning, whose daughter Jo Ann was a member of our class.  This was, to my knowledge, the first "class trip" in the history of St. Charles High School, thanks, in part, to the creative imagination of Maurice Dunn who taught us science, among many other things (whose car was one of those that transported us to NOLA that lovely spring week of 1953).


L/R: Top Row: Elizabeth Ann Dupslaff, Bob Knowlton, JoAnn Browning, Richard "Rocky" Mc Kinley, [unknown woman in hat] Mae Krablin, Roger Carver, Dale Woodiel, Kay Terry. L/R Lower Row: Mildred Downs, Charles Downs, Lottie Mae Vernor, Nellie Ann Crabtree, Darlene Smith [lady in hat] Mora Faye Duty, Eunice Ward, Joyce Jones, Maurice Dunn, Mrs. Amelia Browning, the unofficial "class mother who drove one of the cars for our trip.

These adults, and especially Charles Downs, played a noteworthy role in our "growing up."  Years later, after I was out of college and the Army and was married with children, I made during a trip to Arkansas a special trip to Conway where Mildred and Charles Downs were living at the time just to thank him for what he had done for me.  I tried to express it to him as best I could.  He was baffled; he had no idea what I was talking about.  He had, he said, done nothing particularly special.  So it goes.